Member Spotlight
Kay Hocker
Incoming Executive Director
Parents
can prepare children for success in a diverse world, but they can’t
predict what that success will look like. Opal and John Hocker probably
wouldn’t have predicted that their dance-loving daughter would
become the next Executive Director of the Diversity Council, but
from Kay’s perspective they clearly planted the seeds of her
future role.
Although growing up in Ames, Iowa didn’t
offer many experiences with diversity, her parents taught her to
be accepting, “My parents thought about the world in a curious
and positive way. My mother read to me avidly. I loved a set of
books called the ‘Children’s Books of the World’—It
featured poetry, stories and art from around the globe. I spent
hours poring over these books—I was fascinated. My parents
really encouraged us to explore new and different things.”
As a young girl, new and different people
were especially fascinating. “When a family moved to my neighborhood
from India, I sought out friendship with one of the girls from this
family that was in my class. My friend tried out for various school
clubs and activities, but she was never chosen or accepted. It enraged
me—I didn’t really understand it, or know what to call
it. I didn’t have the tools or skills to do anything about
it, but I knew it was wrong,” says Hocker.
While her love of reading and new people
continued, Kay found a new passion in her teens—dance. Pursuing
her dream of professional dance, Kay spent one year studying with
Seattle’s Bill Evans dance company while she broke into professional
dance. Returning to the Midwest, Kay resumed her studies while performing
with Dance Co’motion and the Iowa State Touring Dance company.
She graduated from Iowa State University with a degree in dance
and psychology.
After graduation, Kay began teaching dance
and creative movement at the Octagon Center for Arts. Unfortunately,
a back injury suffered in college began to make teaching difficult.
When Kay moved to Rochester in 1983, she was unable to continue
teaching dance, so she moved from a part-time position at Waldenbooks
(BGI company) to a more permanent position. By 1987, Kay started
managing a store, and working with its corporate offices as a district
manager, regional recruiter, and corporate trainer.
During her time at BGI, Kay had the opportunity
to help create a diversity training curriculum. “People had
wonderful experiences in the training,” but despite diversity
training, Kay witnessed incidents of bias that were never resolved
because of lack of leadership. In 1997, Kay began a double Masters
degree in Management and Human Services Administration, her thesis
on “The effectiveness of diversity training on managing diversity
within an organization.”
After completing her Masters in 2001, Kay
decided to resign her position at BGI and pursue a new dream—working
to help people in the health & human services sector. Kay began
volunteering at the Diversity Council in June 2001 as Education
Committee Chair. Within a year, Kay had accepted a role at the Diversity
Council as Education Director, and brought her passion, educational
background, and corporate experience to managing our Prejudice Reduction
Workshop program and creating new adult education.
Throughout her life, Kay had seen people
she loved dearly treated unfairly and it made her want to take action,
“It took me a long time to realize what I could do…but
now I think I have to do it. Education is our great hope. After
all this time, I believe that education is the best tool for enacting
social change. That’s why I feel like I have such a great
fit here.”
Through a varied
career Kay has gained wisdom and experience that has prepared her
for the important role of Executive Director of Diversity Council,
but she credits the leadership and values of her family.
“In
a lot of ways, we were very traditional. But my family talked about
politics, the war in Vietnam, the civil rights movement, with a
sense of social responsibility and integrity. The main thing I learned
from my parents is integrity. My father always did his duty. Always.
I find the same sense of integrity and commitment for the people
at the Diversity Council. It’s probably the best thing about
working here—is being surrounded by people of integrity committed
to making change.”
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